That’s Where Identity Begins Again

That’s Where Identity Begins Again When I emptied the last storage unit, I stood in the doorway looking at the empty space one last time. I remember thinking, I’ve done it. Then another thought quietly followed: Now what? For two and a half years, grief had given me a very clear assignment. There was a […]

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Who Am I Without the Roles I Once Held?

Who Am I Without the Roles I Once Held? After I emptied the last storage unit, people naturally asked me how it felt. Most assumed the biggest relief came from having less stuff to manage. There certainly was relief. The emotional weight had lifted, and so had the financial burden of paying for a space […]

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The Storage Unit Was Never Just Storage

The Storage Unit Was Never Just Storage My husband died in November 2023. Within six months, I had moved out of the home we had shared for more than three decades and into a much smaller townhouse. Downsizing meant making difficult decisions. Nearly 80 percent of what we had accumulated over a lifetime together had […]

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